Do we forget to connect with people ?
Conversations are the fuel for a healthy relationship with yourself and other people. Conversation is something which connects human being with each other. What make us feel happy is someone who can talk and listen and that's the reason it will never change despite the advancement of new technologies.
We all are getting caught up in the rat race of life, we are looking for different materialistic things in our life which make us happy and in this race we forgot to connect with people. We take few things for granted in our life including our physical and mental health and people in our life. This blog is about someone you have or had in your life. This blog is about you, this blog is about your friend who is there for you all the time, but He/She never expected anything from you or this blog is about the person you meet in your life and lost them.
You know there are very few people in this world who are really addicted to their loneliness. These are the people you can find easily in your life as well as at the same time you can't find them easily in your life, these are the people who feel a little more, these are the people who act rude to just keep them self away from anything which make them emotionally weak. These are the people whose fear of love is much more than anything else, the science define it as “ Philophobia ” but as we know there are some feelings and fears which even science can't define. When these people meet with someone they feel a connection with other person when they feel that connection they start running away from it, or they pay a lot to be with that person, when they can't find the same level of connection they start running away from that emotional pain. But let me tell you these are the people with vision, goal, optimists and their life looks complicated for anyone who is an outsider.
When they started feeling their loneliness their self-love becomes stronger that it's create a strong emotional shield which becomes hard for others to crack. The protective emotional layer around them plays his role in the farm of ego, rudeness, anger and coldness, That's the reason they are either an extrovert or an introvert.
These are the people who are a little broken, a little choosy and selective that's the reason they might take long time to make any decision for them. They can reject several choices as not being quite right. These people have patience to wait for something which really means for them. These people have a different level of energy and you can feel their frequency and experience it in their conversation.
It's a little hard for you to feel their love for you, its little hard for you to understand their words, it's gonna to be hard for you to find anything from their face but if you look at their eye's and understand what's it means, you will understand what they wanna to say. You need to go en extra mile for these people to break their shield to let them know that how much you care for them, you need to hug them a little harder so that they can express their inside stories. They can put everything in front of you like a clean, colorless water and you can feel their trust inside your heart.
You know what these are the people you can't find easily at cafeteria. These people are like that random wave of wind which you can feel with your soul in mid of Summer days. These are the people who can expect nothing from you when they do something for you when they put there everything to see you happy. These are the people who don't judge you on the basis of your past and future, your age and gender and on the basis of your color and how you look. These are those listeners you want in your life when you wanna to share your darkest secrets or at mid night strong meaningful healthy conversation, when you wanna to give vent to your emotions. These are those judgemental free listeners you want in your life.
You take them for granted in your life and that's the reason you lost them, Because these people can feel an extra pain in their heart. You need to put a little more efforts so that they can melt their coldness, their protective shield. But let me tell you these are the people with extra layer of loyalty, honesty, trust and with these people you can get a better way to find yourself.
These are the people who can travel all night to just meet you, these are the people whose love are gonna to be honest in their own way.
And what's the fun fact you meet every day with such person in your life, or you have them in your life, but you never know what they feel or why the smile more at smaller things. They are the one who was there when you wanna to share a cup of tea in the mid of summer noon.
A little more about these humans. Are you belong to those ? Do you have these type of people in your life ?
Let's comment your views.
